the reserve

Contrary to the other definition, reserved is a characteristic of a person whom socializes sparingly. It is shown not out of inability to converse or work with others, but instead permits them to be self-aware of whom, what, when, where, why and how they talk to people. A reserved person may speak less in groups because they prefer to listen to what is being said, and who is saying it. When they have formulated a contribution to a discussion, it's generally well thought out. Reserved people garner the respect of their peers and do not seek to offend intentionally. As opposed to an anti-social or asocial person, reserved people DO know how to talk to their peers and delight in interaction, although very brief. This is not to be conflated with "socially awkward" or "socially retarded", or even "shy"; all of which stem from social anxiety, but hold some form of connection to being reserved.